To me love is a reciprocal agreement, it is a fire that must be feed by both sides to stay alive; “My love feeds on your love.” To me love is patient, kind, and selfless – not envious, boastful, arrogant, rude, or irritable.
Setting boundaries is an act of dignity. Although it is challenging to walk away from someone you once cared deeply about; what becomes more important is U, your health, your wellbeing, and your life – because UMATTER.
Ultimately, relationships should involve shared effort, care and emotional support. When those elements disappear, recognizing that change and choosing self-preservation and self-respect is essential.
Reference Neruda, Pablo. “If You Forget Me”
With love,
A girl in her 20s
Me
Dear Self, 
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